This neglect extends to the education of children, both in Western and Islamic knowledge. As a result, these youngsters pose a threat to society, engaging in extreme activities such as cultism, thievery, rascality, and vandalism. Inquiring about such incidents often reveals that the culprits are the offspring of specific individuals within the community.
Wadata Community in Makurdi is grappling with a concerning reality – the neglect of children and a breakdown in family roles. While the desire for children is apparent, the readiness to care for and educate them is sorely lacking. Men, driven by a focus on reproduction, often neglect their responsibilities towards their wives and children.
It’s not uncommon to witness situations where fathers disregard the importance of taking their young sons to the mosque, leaving their upbringing to society. Financially, many men not only fail to contribute to their households but also borrow money from their wives. This has led to a reversal of traditional gender roles, with women assuming the responsibilities traditionally held by men.
This neglect extends to the education of children, both in Western and Islamic knowledge. As a result, these youngsters pose a threat to society, engaging in extreme activities such as cultism, thievery, rascality, and vandalism. Inquiring about such incidents often reveals that the culprits are the offspring of specific individuals within the community.
The consequences are dire, with the youth becoming a menace to society, indulging in harmful behaviors like smoking, drinking, and excessive clubbing. The erosion of responsible parenting has led to extreme cases, such as a married man scamming his hardworking wife, leaving her with their child and no resources.
In another distressing scenario, a man in Wadata lives with his wife and seven children in a single-room apartment, with an eighth child on the way. Despite being a vulcanizer with a motorcycle, the family is crammed into this small space, even using it to store the motorcycle for security. The dire living conditions persist, as the first son, only 7 years old, faces the prospect of more siblings.
The community must urgently address these issues. Advocacy for responsible parenting, financial support for struggling families, and initiatives for youth education and empowerment are crucial steps. By working together, Wadata can break free from the current cycle of neglect, creating a future where children are nurtured, educated, and contribute positively to society.