A video of an SHS 2 student being fed by her mother after returning from school has gone viral, sparking debate about parenting styles in Ghana.…....
In the clip, the teenage girl sits as her mother feeds her with a spoon, the same way one would feed a younger child. The mother explained that she does this for her daughter anytime she comes home from school, even though the family is not wealthy.
“She has been pampered from childhood,” the mother said. “I do this for her anytime she arrives from school.”
The video has drawn mixed reactions online. Many viewers found the scene touching, praising the mother for her care and bond with her daughter. Others questioned whether the practice encourages dependency, arguing that an SHS student should be feeding herself.
The moment has also highlighted the sacrifices some Ghanaian parents make for their children, even when resources are limited. Feeding a child after school is a common act of love in many homes, though rarely captured on camera at the senior high level.
Parenting experts say acts of care can strengthen family bonds, but balance is important as children grow older and take on more responsibility. At the SHS level, students are also preparing for independence in tertiary education or the workplace.
The video ends with the girl smiling as her mother continues to feed her, while someone behind the camera reacts with “Wei”.
Is a mother feeding her SHS daughter love and care, or does it stop the child from learning independence?
