Nigerian socialite Pretty Mike has sent a message to his gender against sleeping with married women.
On his Instagram page, he said every time a man chases after a married woman, he exposes his weakness and trades discipline for desperation. He admonished such men to leave married women alone to avoid regret in future.
According to him, most of them think they are winning when they do so, but they are only exposing the weaknesses, lack of discipline, line and zero honour. Pretty Mike stressed that real men don’t move like that.
The socialite admonished them to respect their fellow man, noting that a woman who betrays her husband for one will betray him for someone else.
“Every time you chase a married woman, you expose your weakness. You trade discipline for desperation. What looks exciting today can become your regret tomorrow. Leave married women alone. You think you’re winning because you’re bedding another man’s wife? Nah
You’re exposing your weaknesses: your lack of discipline and your zero honour. Real men don’t move like that. Don’t date or sleep with another man’s wife. Flee from her and run away. Respect your fellow man. The one who betrays her husband for you will betray you for someone else”.
Refreshing your memory, earlier this week, Frank had released a statement about his crashed marriage, thanking the public for their support and saying he has emotionally come to terms with it. He made it known that he is well, focused and at peace.
Following his statement, a leaked audio recording of his estranged wife and her rumoured boyfriend, Chike, is circulating online. In the audio, his wife was telling Chike about the issues she was facing in the marriage and her husband’s suspicion about them. She said their marriage was falling apart, and Frank was probing her about their relationship.
Speaking out, Sandra, in a series of Instagram posts, accused him of serial infidelity and emotional abuse. She alleged that he had an affair with BBNaija star, Tega Dominic, Mbong Amata, and other socialites. She claimed he frequently disappeared for days, misused her finances, and brought other women into their home.
In a leaked voice note, Frank Edoho narrated how he approached Chike to confront him about the affair, calling him a ‘stupīd boy,’ and said the singer was shaking like a leaf when he confronted him. Edoho said he told him that if his wife were still as important to him as she was when he married her, he would have shot Chike, and he would be confined to a wheélchair.
Reacting to it, Do2dtun said there was no justification for cheating for any man or woman. He stressed that we should stop accepting nonsense for the sake of winning arguments and call a spade a spade.
BBNaija Tuoyo, had pondered how he could conveniently sleep with married women. Describing it as pure wickedness, he stated that no matter how wild he is, sleeping with another man’s wife is off limits, and even money can’t change that.
BBNaija Tochi said this generation doesn’t have the same level of tolerance, patience, and endurance that our mothers and fáthers had, and are too woke. He suggested that marriages should come with a contract, and whoever breaks it should pay a penalty.
In another post, he said that when two adults choose to do something consensually, people should stop blaming the other person.
Ossai Success, called Chike and Sandra losers. According to him, Chike committed an abomination by sleeping with another man’s wife, and they are the ones who stand to lose the most. He said Frank can move on and remarry, but for Chike and Sandra, it becomes harder as most people think twice before marrying someone involved in such a situation.
In a resurfaced interview, Chike had explained his preference for dating older women. The talented vocalist revealed that older women appeal to him because of their emotional maturity, greater understanding, and a lack of unnecessary drama compared to younger women. He highlighted that with maturity comes improved communication, peace of mind, and a deeper understanding of relationships—qualities he values deeply in his personal life.
Last year, in an episode of the Tea with Tay podcast, Frank announced the end of his second marriage to Sandra Onyenuchenuya. He revealed that he and his second wife had parted ways and explained that he did his best to make his marriages work; unfortunately, they failed.
Recall that after his first divorce, Edoho married Sandra Onyenucheya, and they remained together for over a decade, during which they welcomed two children.
This brought Edoho’s total number of children to five.
During the heat of the crashed marriage, reports alleged that his second wife had cheated with a popular singer.
