Media personality Toke Makinwa has advised ladies in relationships.
On her Instagram story, she shared a message on what she believes people should look out for in a life partner. She advised women to marry the man who calls after an argument to make sure they are okay, rather than one who leaves them alone to deal with their pain.
Makinwa stressed that one should choose a partner who stays when things get difficult and seeks understanding rather than trying to win every argument.
She added that a man who is willing to pause, hold his partner, and sincerely apologise because he values the relationship more than his ego is the kind of partner to build a future with.
“Marry the man who calls you after an argument just to make sure you’re okay.
Not the one who leaves you alone with your tears. Choose the man who stays when things get hard and wants to understand you, not defeat you.
A man who can pause, hold you, and say ‘I’m sorry’, because your relationship matters more to him than his ego”.
Comedian Funny Bone had advised ladies who are scared of relationships and marriages because of bad online examples to curate their algorithms and stop feeding their minds content that constantly triggers pain, fear, and resentment. He admonished them not to let others’ experiences shape how they view a man who hasn’t even entered their life yet.
In the wake of Frank Edoho’s marital crisis,
Sarah Martins had sent a message to marriage shamers, questioning why they were still shaming women who choose to stay unmarried. Martins said she would rather stay single and enjoy her peace than be pressured into a marriage of convenience.
Lizzy Gold sent a message to women about marriage. She cautioned them to be careful with stories about marriage, stating that it is better to be single than to be married. She stressed that if one must marry, one should make sure one marries right.
Kemi Afolabi issued a stern warning to those in relationships, advising them to protect their lives and not allow anyone to take them. She stressed that they should guard it with all their being, whether in marriage, friendship, courtship, or any form of relationship.
Opeyemi Aiyeola had advised those in relationships, telling them not to go into any relationship with just their heart and soul. She admonished them to use their brains, to avoid being manipulated.
In a previous post, she shared some relationship tips with her fans who are still looking for love. According to the mother of two, genuine love still exists out there but one has to be patient enough to be blessed with one.
Yoruba actress Yewande Adekoya issued an important message to those planning to get married. She advised them to embrace science, undergo a personality test, and have a psychological and mental evaluation with their partner to be aware of the kind of marriage they should have.
Socialite, Yhemo Lee sent a message to his gënder, voicing out about women’s shitty behaviours in relationships. He revealed that the fastest way for a man to hate a woman is when they never acknowledges his sacrifices positively and undermines his efforts, but is so quick to fault him at any slight opportunity. He noted that most women only look out for men’s faults, which is why some of them end up with demons.
