Nigerian crossdresser James Brown is pouring out his heart after an altercation with a man over his identity.
The crossdresser, in a video he shared on his Instagram page, was seen confronting a man as his crew and others around held him back.
Speaking out, James said he was trying to settle an issue involving his team when a man started attacking his identity.
The crossdresser noted how many see a feminine person as an easy target. He described such a mindset as a big mistake, stating that looking soft doesn’t mean one can be easily broken.
James Brown said that people don’t have to like, understand, or respect him, while also noting how he has been called every name in the book, yet he is still here. According to him, every insult became fuel and every attempt to break him became another reason he refused to disappear.
“They see a feminine person and immediately think, “Easy target.
That’s where they get it wrong.
The biggest mistake you can make is confusing femininity with weakness. Looking soft doesn’t mean I break easily. Smiling doesn’t mean I’m scared. Being graceful doesn’t mean I won’t defend my dignity.
This video happened because someone thought disrespect was free. While I was trying to settle an issue involving my team, he stopped talking about the matter and started attacking my identity instead.
Here’s the lesson:
You don’t have to like me.
You don’t have to understand me.
But you will respect me.
I’ve been called every name in the book, yet I’m still here. Every insult became fuel. Every attempt to break me became another reason I refused to disappear.
People love to test those they think won’t respond.
Choose wisely.
The same confidence you mock is the same confidence that built my name.
I’m not asking the world to accept me. I’m simply reminding everyone that respect is not optional.
Now tell me…
Why do some people mistake femininity for weakness?”.
Last year, the crossdresser vented over the struggles of being a man. He noted that there are so many expectations for men and that 90 per cent of countries ruled by men are fighting wars.
In 2023, James Brown explained why he chose to dress as a woman. The dramatic Duchess of London said he dresses like a woman because it pays the bills naturally. He also said that being a woman can make somebody rich, however, if the person is smart.
In another post, he opened up on the struggles of being a woman, admitting that it wasn’t easy for him. He revealed that sometimes he feels some way from how he used to. Further elaborating on his struggles, he claimed that he doesn’t urinate as a man again.
Recall that the crossdresser cum socialite, revealed that he would love to be a mother. According to him, he loves babies and wishes to have them soon.
In a subsequent post, James revealed that he was set to undergo surgery to import a womb, so he could fulfill his desire of becoming a mum.
