Never Discuss Your Husband or Wife without an Outsider No Matter What

Never Discuss Your Husband or Wife without an Outsider No Matter What.

Never share your problems with someone who doesn’t have the capacity to solve them.

It’s from God’s word I knew so many things about marriage. That no matter what happens, your wife is your wife. That’s why you’ll never hear me discuss my wife with somebody as a principal.

Any man who discusses his wife is the most foolish, stupid man. And any woman who discusses her husband with somebody else, she’s stupid. If your husband misbehaves go and tell pastor or go and tell a councilor who you respect but never discusses your spouse with anybody. From the word of God. Not that my wife cannot make me angry. You think she has never made me angry before? plenty times. Me, I never make am vex? Plenty times.

But I understood the Bible that if I sit down to discuss my wife it’s myself I’m discussing. You will see some men say things like Don’t mind my wife. Useless woman. His own wife o, useless woman. She knows how to cook. She doesn’t know how to cook. You do you know how to cook? If you say she doesn’t know how to cook then you are saying you don’t know how to cook.

That is not a discussion with somebody else. My wife doesn’t know how to cook. You have disgraced yourself. If your wife doesn’t know how to cook, sit your wife down and say, my wife, you know what? I don’t like the food you’re cooking. Can you go and learn how to cook? A good one will know that you are passing message. This soup you cook everyday, it doesn’t flow through me. A good one will say, hey, this man don’t like my food. If she doesn’t agree, then you call somebody who is senior you like a pastor. Pastor, tell my wife to learn how to cook. Even with woman is the same thing. Don’t discuss your spouse with a third-party. You say if I don’t tell her who am I going to tell? Okay, when you tell the person so you get solution? So you have not solved any problem. Some women even discuss their husbands as well everywhere they go.

You see that man? Yeye (Useless). He just don’t work out. He can’t train his children, he can’t even pay school fees. I’m the one here now. I’ve been in the market since morning.

Now, the person you have told, have they solved your problem? Never share your problems with someone who doesn’t have the capacity to solve them.

– Pastor David Ibiyeomie advises both already married couples and intending ones