Comedian Kilnt COD has shared his thoughts on the ongoing marital controversy involving TV presenter Frank Edoho, suggesting that the broadcaster made several missteps in handling the situation.
In a video circulating online, Kilnt COD said he initially chose not to speak on the matter until more information became available. He noted that after reviewing claims made by Edoho’s ex-wife as well as alleged voice notes and reports linking the issue to singer Chike, he felt compelled to react.
According to him, Edoho allegedly handled the situation poorly and made what he described as three major mistakes: forgiving infidelity after discovering it, attempting to force a confession despite suspicions of repeated cheating, and confronting the alleged third party instead of resolving issues directly within the marriage.
“First mistake from Frank Edoho,” he said. “You caught your wife cheating and decided to forgive her. That’s the first mistake. Once cheating happens the first time and you discover it, it’s better everyone goes their separate ways.”
He continued, “Second mistake, you realized it was still happening and started asking for a confession. That’s not the right move.”
Kilnt COD further argued that, in his view, women who cheat often become emotionally detached long before the act, while men may act on impulse and later regret it. He added that trust is rarely restored once infidelity occurs, even after forgiveness.
He also advised men to be more careful in choosing life partners, warning that emotional distance in relationships can build up silently before becoming obvious in damaging ways.
On the alleged involvement of singer Chike, the comedian urged him to seek forgiveness if the accusations prove true, saying the situation goes against what he described as a “brotherhood code” among men.
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Read some commnets below:
@auntynene_blog:”When Yul took Mr Obasi’s wife, I never saw this much energy. Dear Men, What suddenly happened???👀.”
@iam_dor_dor:”He forgave because he is living off the woman. If the woman depended on him, he would have chased her away. Dear women, have money.”
@honest_raymond:”Women have been crying for ages that even as kids they are being molested by grown men. Men shut them up and say MEN TOO! They have been crying that infidelity hurts them so much. We men said SHUT UP and be like our mothers. They have been wondering why a widowed woman is dehumanised, shaved and maltreated while a widower is shown compassion and encouraged to remarry immediately. We told them not to QUESTION TRADITION.
“They wondered why the church holds prayers for BARREN WOMEN but never for IMPOTENT MEN. They have been trying to tell us their pain points but they were met with dismissive, high-handed, insensitive responses from men who do not want the status quo to change just because we are its ultimate beneficiaries. The result of suppression is ALWAYS REBELLION. Now we men are crying. Until we change our ways, this is just the beginning of decadence, and THERE WILL BE NO WINNERS!”
@tn_herbals:”Men are reaping the foundation they laid….Men should do better!!”
@ogaslove:”Una go cry tire 😂😂😂😂😂😂.”
@jojooakly:”Men go cry Taya!😜.”
@amma_darkwa:”Men didn’t speak when Osinachi was beaten to death 😭.”
@thefabulous_bee:”Chocho! 😂😂😂 who knew Nigerian men could turn to motivational speakers.”
